4 Steps to Calm Your Nervous System for Awakening Empaths
Have you ever felt like you're not quite yourself? Maybe you've experienced moments where your nervous system seems stuck, as if it's been on lockdown due to stress or traumatic experiences. If so, you're not alone, and there's a way to find relief.
By Polly Green
Have you ever felt like you're not quite yourself? Maybe you've experienced moments where your nervous system seems stuck, as if it's been on lockdown due to stress or traumatic experiences. If so, you're not alone, and there's a way to find relief.
In a recent conversation, I spoke with someone who described this exact feeling. They shared how their nervous system felt stuck, likely because of the stress they had been enduring. Oftentimes, when we go through challenging circumstances like accidents or trauma, a part of us, a fragment of our energy, or even a piece of our soul can disconnect from our body. When this happens, our nervous system goes into a heightened state of stress, leaving us feeling far from ourselves.
But here's the good news: there are steps we can take to reclaim our sense of self and calm our nervous system. In this blog post, I'll guide you through four essential steps that can help you restore balance, clarity, and peace in your life.
Step 1: Clearing Your Chakras
Our chakras are vital energy centers in our bodies, and there are seven main ones. To begin the process of restoring harmony, set a clear intention to clear and balance your chakras. You can enhance this process by using a Tibetan bowl, which emits frequencies that are effective in chakra cleansing.
Step 2: Clearing Your Space
The environment we live in can sometimes carry negative energies or lower frequencies that affect our well-being. It's crucial to regularly clear your space. Set your intention to call upon the highest source of energy, characterized by unconditional love, to clear and purify your space.
Step 3: Calling Back Your Soul Fragments
Now, it's time to retrieve the part of you that may have left your body during stressful times. In a deeply relaxed state, set your intention to welcome back any soul fragments or energies that may be outside of your body. Ask for them to be rinsed, cleared, and cleansed, and returned to your body.
Step 4: Energetic Protection
To ensure lasting peace and well-being, call in energetic protection as your new normal moving forward. This will create a shield of safety and grounding, allowing you to navigate life with a sense of calm and equanimity.
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you. click on the link to book a free consultation with me. To see if working together is a good fit.
Namaste 🌟
Polly
Polly Green is a spiritual coach, psychic medium and founder of OtherSide Channelling Academy.
She guides awakening empaths and intuitives to safely connect with their Spirit Team on the Other Side so they can transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts.
5 Simple Steps to Release Energy Cords for Awakening Empaths
"What are energy cords and how to release them?" If you've ever felt drained, stuck, or emotionally attached to someone or something, you're in the right place. Join us on this transformative journey as we explore energy cords, why they matter, and how to set yourself free.
By Polly Green
If you've ever felt drained, stuck, or emotionally attached to someone or something, you're in the right place. In this post we explore energy cords, why they matter, and how to set yourself free.
Defining Energy Cords
Let's first understand what energy cords are. Think of them as subtle, energetic threads that connect you to other people, places, or past experiences. These cords form for various reasons, such as emotional attachments, unresolved issues, or simply spending a lot of time with someone.
Why Energy Cords Matter
Now, you might wonder why these seemingly intangible cords matter at all. Well, energy cords can significantly impact your overall well-being. They have the power to drain your energy, leave you emotionally entangled, and even influence your thoughts and actions. But fret not; we're here to guide you through the process of setting yourself free.
The Release Technique
Let's dive into how to release those energy cords and reclaim your inner peace.
🔸Awareness is Key
The journey begins with awareness. Take a moment to reflect on your life and recognize the energy cords that may be affecting you. They could be attached to people, places, or situations. Self-awareness is your compass in this process.
🔸Visualize and Feel
Close your eyes and visualize these cords. Imagine them as tangible, physical ties connecting you to their source. Feel their presence and the emotions entwined within them. Visualization is your bridge to understanding.
🔸Releasing the Cords
Now, it's time for the release. Envision a majestic golden hand gently plucking these cords out of you by their roots. Set the intention that all hooks, cords, and bonds to the person or situation are now released, uprooted, and dissolved. As you do this, allow love and forgiveness to fill your heart, not anger or resentment.
🔸 Release and Heal
After dissolving the cords, release the energy with love and gratitude. Visualize the cords dissolving into radiant light or floating away harmlessly into the cosmos. Breathe deeply, and feel the weight lifting off your shoulders. This is your moment of liberation.
🔸Self-Care and Protection
Finally, remember to prioritize self-care and protection. Allow yourself to feel any emotions that may surface after the cords have been released. Emotions are energy in motion, and it's crucial to honor and make space for them. Regularly cleanse your energy, shield yourself from negative influences, and immerse yourself in high-frequency energy.
🔸 Seek Guidance:
Consider collaborating with an energy healer or therapist skilled in energy work. Their guidance offers valuable insights and personalized techniques for your unique journey. Working with a skilled practitioner is a huge support and can save you heaps of time.
(Energy work and clearing energy is my forte. I would be happy to chat with you to see if I can help support you further. Book a time in my calendar here)
🌟 Conclusion:
And there you have it, the fundamentals of energy cords and how to release them. Remember, this is a deeply personal journey that may require time and practice to master. But with patience and dedication, you can break free from these energetic ties and step into a more empowered and liberated version of yourself.
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
I invite you to book a free consultation with me to see if working together is a good fit.
Polly Green is a spiritual coach, psychic medium, energy worker, and founder of OtherSide Channelling Academy.
She guides awakening empaths and intuitives to safely connect with their Spirit Team on the Other Side so they can transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts.
5 Steps to Clearing Energy Blocks for Awakening Empaths
Life's journey can often lead us down a path of external pressures, career demands, and personal challenges that leave us feeling disconnected, anxious, and unfulfilled. If you find yourself resonating with this struggle, you're not alone. Today, we explore the profound practice of clearing energy blocks
By Polly Green
If you’re an empath or intuitive, you know how heavy life can feel sometimes — like you’re carrying everyone else’s energy on top of your own. Overwhelm, anxiety, or feeling “stuck” often isn’t about what’s happening in your life, but what’s lingering in your energy field.
The good news? You can release it, step into clarity, and reconnect with your own guidance and Spirit Team. Here are five practical ways I guide empaths to clear energy blocks and reclaim their power:
1. Start with Awareness
Notice where you feel tension, heaviness, or resistance in your body or mind. These are often signs of stuck energy. Simply acknowledging them is the first step to releasing it.
2. Move Your Body
Shake, dance, or stretch — whatever gets energy flowing. Physical movement helps shift stagnant energy and reconnects you to your body’s natural rhythm.
3. Breathe and Ground
Use deep, intentional breaths to anchor yourself. Imagine roots extending from your body into the Earth, letting excess energy drain away while drawing in fresh, supportive energy.
4. Call in Your Support Team
Invite guidance from your Spirit Team, angels, or higher self. Ask them to help you release what no longer serves you and to fill your space with supportive energy.
5. Set Boundaries and Clear Space
Check your physical and energetic environment:
Close doors to rooms you’re not using
Say a mental “no” to energy that isn’t yours
Use simple clearing tools — like sound, smoke, or intention — to reset your space
Clearing energy isn’t a one-time fix — it’s a practice. When you do it consistently, you start to feel lighter, more centered, and more able to trust yourself and your intuition.
If you’re ready to move from overwhelm to confidence, clarity, and fully stepping into your intuitive and spiritual gifts — and reconnect with your Spirit Team and loved ones on the Other Side — this work can transform the way you experience life as an empath.
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
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Energy Boundaries for Awakening Empaths
In our pursuit of personal growth and spiritual connection, we often focus on the tangible aspects of self-improvement—meditation, self-help books, nature walks, and more. However, there's a profound dimension that often goes overlooked but is equally crucial: our energetic well-being. As female empaths women, many of us have faced diverse challenges, from work-related stress to difficult relationships, and we've turned to various self-help avenues to navigate them. But have you ever considered the importance of setting energetic boundaries in your journey towards self-discovery and inner peace?
This blog post explores the significance of energetic boundaries, drawing inspiration from Barbara Ann Brennan's energy work and her book "Hands of Light." It's a reminder that aligning our energies can be a transformative step in our quest for personal growth and spiritual connection.
By Polly Green
As an empath, you naturally absorb the energy around you. Without strong boundaries, it’s easy to feel drained, overwhelmed, or even responsible for everyone else’s emotions. Learning to protect your energy isn’t just self-care — it’s essential for trusting yourself, your intuition, and connecting fully with your Spirit Team.
Here are five practical steps I use with awakening empaths to create clear, empowering energy boundaries:
1. Tune In to Your Body
Notice where you feel tension, heaviness, or discomfort. Your body is the first signal that energy isn’t yours. Acknowledge it, name it, and commit to releasing what doesn’t belong.
2. Visualize Your Energy Field
Imagine a protective bubble of light around you. This isn’t about shutting people out — it’s about creating a safe space where you can operate from clarity and calm.
3. Ask for Support
Call in your Spirit Team, angels, or guides. Ask them to help you release unwanted energy and strengthen your personal boundaries. You don’t have to do it alone.
4. Use Physical and Ritual Tools
Shake, move, or breathe intentionally to release stuck energy. Clear your space with sound, smoke, or intention. Even small rituals reinforce your boundaries and help you feel grounded.
5. Speak Your Truth
Energy boundaries are reinforced when you communicate your needs clearly. A simple “I need space right now” or “I can’t take this on” is a powerful way to protect your energy while staying compassionate.
Setting boundaries isn’t about pushing others away — it’s about creating room for your clarity, confidence, and fully stepping into your intuitive and spiritual gifts. When your energy is clear, you can trust yourself, your guidance, and your connection to your Spirit Team and loved ones on the Other Side.
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
I invite you to book a free consultation with me to see if working together is a good fit, click here to book a time on my calendar.
-Polly
Polly Green is a spiritual coach, psychic medium and founder of OtherSide Channelling Academy.
She guides awakening empaths and intuitives to safely connect with their Spirit Team on the Other Side so they can transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts.
Why do I feel guilty setting boundaries? (EMPATHS)
Why do we feel guilty setting boundaries as empaths?
The guilt that accompanies boundary-setting is a universal experience, one that many of us grapple with throughout our lives. However, it's essential to understand that boundaries are not selfish barricades; they are vital for our well-being, growth, and authenticity.
Let's delve into the world of boundaries, exploring why we sometimes feel guilty when establishing them and how to navigate this complex terrain with grace and self-compassion.
By Polly Green
Boundaries define the invisible lines that separate our personal space, needs, and well-being from the demands and expectations of others. Yet, in this intricate tapestry of interactions, why do we often feel guilty when we dare to set boundaries?
As female empaths, we may have a subconscious program of wanting to please people. We may feel like it is selfish to say no. However, it's essential to understand that boundaries are not selfish barricades; they are vital for our well-being, growth, and authenticity.
Let's delve into the world of boundaries, exploring why we sometimes feel guilty when establishing them and how to navigate this complex terrain with grace and self-compassion.
🔸 Reasons for Setting Boundaries:
First and foremost, it's crucial to recognize the compelling reasons behind establishing boundaries. Take a moment to reflect on why you're creating these essential lines of demarcation in your life:
🔸Boosting Self-Worth:
Setting boundaries is an act of self-love. It's a declaration that your needs, feelings, and well-being are valid and worthy of protection.
🔸Reducing Stress and Resentment:
Boundaries serve as a protective shield, guarding you against the overwhelming stress and festering resentment that can result from overcommitting or allowing others to overstep your boundaries.
🔸Strengthening Relationships:
Paradoxically, healthy boundaries can deepen your relationships. They ensure that interactions are founded on mutual respect and understanding, rather than manipulation or exploitation.
🔸Acknowledging Your Needs:
Recognizing and communicating your needs is a sign of self-awareness and emotional intelligence. It's an acknowledgment that you matter.
🔸 Keeping the Peace vs. Your Needs:
One common source of guilt when setting boundaries is the desire to "keep the peace." We're often afraid of disrupting the equilibrium of our relationships or work situations. The prospect of speaking up and challenging the status quo can be daunting.
Moreover, there's a deep-rooted fear of causing conflict or discomfort by asserting our boundaries. We might worry that others will perceive us as confrontational or difficult. This fear can lead to guilt, making us question whether we're doing the right thing by putting our needs first.
🔸 Fear of Hurting Feelings:
Another significant factor contributing to boundary-related guilt is the fear of hurting someone's feelings. None of us want to be the source of discomfort or disappointment for others. We often put their emotional well-being ahead of our own, even if it means sacrificing our own needs and desires.
Additionally, there's a pervasive reluctance to set boundaries out of fear of being disliked or rejected. We may worry that by asserting ourselves, we'll be seen as selfish or unworthy of love and acceptance.
But here's the essential truth to remember: You are not responsible for other people's emotions. It's a powerful and liberating realization. While it's natural for some individuals to resist your boundaries initially, it's crucial to understand that you are taking care of yourself—a practice that's not just okay but necessary for your own growth and well-being.
🌟 Putting Yourself First:
Setting boundaries can be challenging, especially if you've spent a lifetime as a people-pleaser or if self-doubt and insecurity have been constant companions. Past experiences of saying "no" when you felt pressured to say "yes" might still haunt you.
However, consider this: Growth often happens outside of our comfort zones. Setting boundaries is a vital step toward leading a healthier, more balanced life.
It's a journey towards understanding and valuing your own needs, and it's an act of self-compassion.
So, the next time you feel that familiar pang of guilt when setting boundaries, pause and remind yourself of the profound reasons behind your actions. Your boundaries are your declaration of self-worth, your shield against stress and resentment, your path to healthier relationships, and your acknowledgment of your fundamental needs.
Your needs matter, and it's not just okay to put yourself first; it's essential. By honoring your boundaries, you embark on a transformative journey toward self-acceptance and a more authentic, balanced, and joyful life. 🙌
In the end, remember that setting boundaries is not a sign of selfishness—it's an act of self-love, and it's a sacred step towards the fulfillment of your unique journey. 🌟
Embrace the power of your boundaries, and watch as your life transforms into a more authentic, harmonious, and joy-filled existence.
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
I invite you to book a free consultation with me to see if working together is a good fit, by clicking on a date and time in my calendar below.
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Polly Green is a spiritual coach, psychic medium and founder of OtherSide Channelling Academy.
She guides awakening empaths and intuitives to safely connect with their Spirit Team on the Other Side so they can transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts.
How to deal with negative self talk as female empaths
By Polly Green
If you've ever struggled with feeling like your head is just exploding with too many negative thoughts then I thought it might be helpful to share a technique that I use everyday and also teach to my clients.
It's called Dissolve the Wall, and it is a strategy that I have designed to combat and alchemize negative thoughts and turn them into the positive.
The first step is to become aware that we are having a thought that is not serving us.
The second step is to forgive yourself for having that thought.
The third step is to send yourself unconditional love.
The fourth step is to change the thought to the opposite.
The only thing we ever have control over is ourselves, and our thinking.
When we begin to harness the power of our thoughts our external life begins to change because everything external is a reflection of what's going on internally.
This work with Dissolve the Wall is life-changing.
It's a tool that we can use that helps us to remember that these thoughts that I'm thinking they're not serving me!
If thoughts are not helpful it is time to let them go.
We have the power to change!
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
I invite you to book a free consultation with me to see if working together is a good fit, by clicking on a date and time in my calendar below.
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Polly Green is a spiritual coach, psychic medium and founder of OtherSide Channelling Academy.
She guides awakening empaths and intuitives to safely connect with their Spirit Team on the Other Side so they can transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts.
Unconditional Self Love For Female Empaths
By Polly Green
We have two stories going on when it comes to unconditional love.
The first story is the one that we get as children. It is imprinted in our bodies as a resonance.
The second story is the adult conscious story of love: get married, have kids, live happily ever after.
Which is actually a fairy tale.
Okay then what even is unconditional love?
The exciting news is now that we can see the illusion of both stories we can create our own version of unconditional love!
And this is the gateway to freedom.
It can be really easy when we get on this self-discovery journey to feel like we have to do all the things all the time.
That's just not true.
What that does is it spins us out and actually creates the opposite effect.
We think we're not doing enough.
What I like to recommend is that you begin to develop a spiritual routine that is manageable and you can stick to everyday.
Add it on to your to do list and make sure you give yourself a big check mark when you have done it. Feel proud of yourself for doing something good for you, and give yourself positive words of congratulations when you have done it!
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
I invite you to book a free consultation with me to see if working together is a good fit, click here to book a time on my calendar.
Speak to you soon!
Polly
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How do I stay sober even when I am triggered and sensitive
How do i stay sober even when i am triggered and sensitive. How do I stay sober as a highly sensitive person and am triggered easily. In this video I share the techniques to get to the root of self sabotage. How to stay sober, when triggered and some early sobriety tips. If you fall into the gray area drinking, and are wanting some sober advice, and what living in sobriety looks like it is important to learn new tools. Emotional sobriety is important on our self help, and self love journey. How do I love myself, and how do i accept myself, and how do i forgive myself, when the fog begins to lift? Learning self forgiveness, and living sober, with emotional triggers is crucial in maintaining sobriety, and staying sober. In sobriety knowing what to do when I am triggered is super important.
By Polly Green
The other day I was feeling super triggered. What that feels like in my body is my forearms get super tight and my whole nervous system felt like it was under attack.
The techniques that I like to use when I find myself in these situations really helps get to the root of self-sabotage and addictive behaviors, so that we don't have to reach externally for something when we feel this way.
Here are the 5 STEPS that help me when I feel triggered.
Stop what I am doing and find some time and space alone.
Close my eyes and start to breathe. Either in and out of the nose or out of the mouth, with no pause or gap between the inhale and exhale.
Go into the body and the discomfort.
Ask it what it needs.
Do what it says. (as long as it is healthy and for your highest and best good!)
This technique has been life changing for me and my clients. It truly deals with the root cause of the trigger.
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
I invite you to book a free consultation with me to see if working together is a good fit, by clicking on a date and time in my calendar below.
Work With Me ➤ Schedule a FREE consult to see if we’re a good fit to work together inside my online program: https://www.othersidechannellingacademy.com/book-a-channelling-chat
Polly Green is a spiritual coach, psychic medium and founder of OtherSide Channelling Academy.
She guides awakening empaths and intuitives to safely connect with their Spirit Team on the Other Side so they can transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts.
5 Steps to Self love as Empaths
By Polly Green
When I first started writing and began to put it out there all I could hear in my head were negative voices.
My inner critic was running wild with negative comments.
I mentioned my fears to a friend, "what if no one likes what I have to say?"
What she replied changed everything for me.
She said, "what if your writing really helps people Polly?"
This possibility that my writing could actually help people, gave me the courage to say, "okay, even though this feels really scary, I am willing to put my writing out there."
Being loving and kind to ourselves may feel like a weird and foreign concept in the beginning but without self love and acceptance we may:
>>>>struggle to trust ourselves and others.
>>>>undervalue and disrespect ourselves which can lead to financial scarcity, being underpaid and working in unfulfilling jobs.
>>>>>feel like we are not contributing to life at our full potential which leads to feeling guilty and bad about ourselves which continues the spiral of self sabotage.
>>>>>hide our true gifts, play small and not speak our truth due to lack of confidence in ourselves, or fear of rejection or ridicule.
If you can relate to any of this then you are in the right place!
Here are the five steps that have helped me the most to develop self love and acceptance, and is the framework for what I teach in my signature online program.
5 Steps To Self Love
Raise Your Frequency
Clear your Energy
Develop a Daily Practice
Have a spiritual connection
Be of service
When we begin to change on the inside our external will also begin to change.
The only thing we ever have control over is ourselves.
Learning how to love ourselves is a skill similar to parenting.
It is not easy and requires diligence patience and dedication.
We are worthy, good enough and deserving of giving ourselves this gift!
If you’re ready to transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts—so you can set boundaries, trust yourself, and reconnect with your loved ones and Spirit Team on the Other Side—I’m here to support you.
I invite you to book a free consultation with me to see if working together is a good fit, by clicking on a date and time in my calendar below.
Work With Me ➤ Schedule a FREE consult to see if we’re a good fit to work together inside my online program:
Polly Green is a spiritual coach, psychic medium and founder of OtherSide Channelling Academy.
She guides awakening empaths and intuitives to safely connect with their Spirit Team on the Other Side so they can transform overwhelm and grief into clarity, confidence, and empowered intuitive gifts.